How To Truly Get What You Want Out of Life!

Learn These Truths Into Actually Getting Your Dream Life

We are currently living in a world full of endless possibilities, it's easy to get overwhelmed by the crazy number of paths available to us. Because of social media and the internet age, we can look up lifestyles that we might have not otherwise seen unless we grew up with that environment and/or influence.

If you clicked on this post, you're likely seeking a life that aligns with your innermost desires. You don't want to live small, you want to live on your own terms. To find true success—you need to start by looking to align your inner world with the life of your dreams. And to do that, you first need to get clear on what it is that you want out of life.

In this post, we'll explore how to truly get what you want out of life, with actionable steps that will help you align your goals with your spiritual and emotional well-being.

IN TODAY’S GUIDE, YOU’LL LEARN:

  1. How to uncover your goals

  2. Pitfalls to avoid when manifesting your dream life

  3. Helpful tips along the journey you might not have heard of

  4. Actionable steps you can start today toward living your dream life

Disclaimer !!

To live out your dream life, you must first decide that you deserve better than your current circumstances. Recognize the toxic people, places, and environments that no longer serve you or align with your future goals. It's essential to acknowledge this and take action. The journey starts with self-love and acceptance—qualities only you can give to yourself. You can't find them outside of you. To manifest your dream life, you need to believe that you are worthy and enough. Wherever you are in life, know that you are okay and that your situation can change. It's never too late to become better. Trust that you are enough and loved beyond imagination.

Clarity is Key: Define Your Goals

The first step to achieving what you want is to gain crystal-clear clarity about your goals. This isn't just about identifying surface-level desires but digging deep within yourself to discover what truly matters. Take time to sit with your thoughts, journal, and reflect on what you want out of life. The more specific you can be, the better. Remember, vague goals lead to vague results.

The Internal Guide has released a digital journal with fifty self-prompts you can use to help you with this step. You can print out these prompts or use your tablet. Access the journal below.

Have NO Idea? Just Try!

If you have literally no idea what you want, don’t stress—sometimes, the best way to figure it out is by trying a bunch of different things. Life isn’t always a straight path, and you might not find your passion or purpose right away, and that’s okay. The key is to stay curious and open-minded. Explore new opportunities, meet new people, and take on new experiences that push you out of your comfort zone. It’s through these trials and changes that you'll start to learn more about yourself and what truly resonates with you. So, take that first step, even if you’re not sure where it leads—because the right opportunities often show up when you least expect them.

Trust Your Inner Guidance

In a world full of opinions, it's easy to get swayed by the advice of those around you—especially family and friends. I'm sure if you tell them that on a whim you're quitting your job, selling all your belongings, and moving to Mexico they would bombard you with all the fears you can encounter along the way. But it's crucial to remember that you're the only one living your life. Be cautious about taking advice from people who aren't living the life you want. We are spiritual, energetic beings, and taking on the fears of others can cloud our judgment and delay our progress. Instead, trust your intuition and inner guidance. Your higher self knows what's best for you. To cultivate a stronger relationship with your higher self, you need to first know the difference between your mind, your body, and the voices of others.

The mind lies, your body doesn’t. If you are making a change in your life that you FEEL is what's best for you, know that that feeling is not there randomly. Understand that it's your ego, never your highest self that comes up with all these fears and anxieties. Don't be too hard on your ego, it's doing its job and trying to keep you safe.

Remember you are not your thoughts so don't identify with them. Whenever an anxious thought comes up, simply say “Thank you for this warning, but I am safe and I believe I know what I'm doing” and let it pass like clouds in the sky.

Take Calculated Risks and Be Ready to Pivot

Life rarely goes according to plan, but that's okay. When trying to manifest your dream life, how you think you will get what you want might not always be how you actually get it. The universe works in mysterious ways. Now, this doesn't mean you won't ever get what you want, just be open to how you get it, because if it's anything, the universe has a fun imagination. It has a way of bringing what you want into your life in a completely different way than you ever imagined.

The key to success is being open to change and willing to pivot when necessary. Taking calculated risks is essential, but so is being flexible when things don't work out as expected. Embrace the uncertainty and see where your circumstances can lead you. Remember, the power to pivot and adapt is what will ultimately bring you closer to your dreams. When a challenge comes up try to reframe the statement “Why Is This Happening To Me? To “Why Is This Happening For Me, What Can I Learn From This?”

Cultivate Patience and Consistency

Good things take time, and personal growth is no exception. Set clear goals for yourself, but also ask how long you've been conditioned to think a certain way. Your ego will often try to keep you safe by reverting to old patterns and thoughts. It's a mind game to stay consistent with your preferred beliefs, but the only way for them to stick is through persistence.

It's believed that it's your actions that get you closer to your goals, when in reality it's your internal state or mindset. You can do all the right “steps” to becoming a millionaire, but if you don't believe you are worthy or can achieve the status, you will never become one. This is just how the universe works (mysterious, right?)

Ask any successful person what's the most important thing they have learned when trying to achieve their goals and the number one answer will always be mindset. You need to remain consistent with changing your internal beliefs that align with getting to your goals. You can not have success without it, it's essential!

Surround Yourself with the Right Influences

You become what you consume—whether it's the media you watch, the people you spend time with, or the books you read. Your brain will latch onto what you consume, and if you're watching people living the life you want, it will naturally seek out more solutions to get you there. Make a conscious effort to surround yourself with content that inspires and uplifts you. This will keep you aligned with your goals and help you stay on track.

Rewire Your Beliefs

Your beliefs shape your reality. Remember, beliefs are just thoughts we keep on thinking. To get what you want, you must first uncover and challenge any limiting beliefs that hold you back. Sit with yourself, write down these beliefs, and ask yourself where they came from and who benefits from them. Are these beliefs even true? Rewriting your beliefs is a powerful process that allows you to align your subconscious mind with your conscious desires.

Think of this this way - “Who benefits from you believing your limiting beliefs?” Ten times out of ten, it's never you!


Shhh… it's a secret 

We are releasing a physical journal soon where you can write out all your self-discoveries, daily entries, manifestations, and more! It's up to you how to make this self-discovery journey personal and most beneficial- creating your internal guide!

Strengthen Your Faith

The journey to achieving your dreams can be challenging, especially when the results aren't immediate. This is where faith comes in. Whether you believe in the Universe, Source, God, or any higher power, forming a relationship with faith can help you stay grounded during tough times. Trust that everything is unfolding as it should and that you are always being guided toward your highest good. Trust that you are more supported and loved than you will ever know. This is extremely beneficial because it's easy to give up when you see no changes but know that it's all worth it. 

Ask Yourself: Which Risk Would I Rather Take?

Ask yourself this question: “Is the risk of going after what I want alongside the many challenges that come along the way worth it? Would I rather risk going against the grain to follow my dreams? Or risk playing it safe, never knowing what it would be like if I did take that step?  

Consider which fear weighs heavier: The fear of failing but knowing you gave it your all, or the fear of never trying, forever wondering what could have been, not knowing if you would fail. 

Make This Journey Fun!

While working towards your goals can indeed be challenging, it doesn't have to be a tedious or draining experience. One of the most empowering things you can do is to make this journey fun and fulfilling. When you approach your goals with a sense of joy and adventure, you're more likely to stay motivated and aligned with your desires.

Start by cultivating trust in yourself. Believe wholeheartedly that you can achieve what you want out of life. This belief is your foundation—a strong and unwavering conviction that will carry you through any obstacles you may face. Remember, you're not alone on this path. You have angels and an entire spiritual team cheering you on every step of the way. There's also a higher version of yourself, always guiding you and giving you the answers you need.

To connect with this guidance, you need to tune in to your inner voice and tune out all the noise and distractions around you. Trust that you are powerful and capable of manifesting the life of your dreams. When you make the journey fun, you’ll find that things start to fall into place more easily, and you’ll seamlessly move towards your goals with joy and enthusiasm.

Actionable Steps You Can Take Today

Journaling: Start by writing down your goals, dreams, and any limiting beliefs that may be holding you back.

Inspirational Content: Watch videos, listen to podcasts, or read books that inspire you. Dr.Joe Dispenza’s work on rewiring the brain is a great place to start.

Mentorship: Seek out someone who has achieved what you aspire to and learn from their journey.

Community: Surround yourself with like-minded individuals who are on a similar path.

Balance Fun with Work: Remember to enjoy the journey. Life is meant to be lived, not just endured. Have fun, take breaks, and celebrate your progress.

The power to create the life of your dreams lies within you. By aligning your inner world with your goals, taking calculated risks, and surrounding yourself with the right influences, you can manifest the life you've always wanted. Remember, the Universe responds to what you give it, so give it your best, and watch your life transform.

Embrace your journey with joy, faith, and determination—because what you believe, you will achieve.

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